Friday, March 25, 2011
Human manners
In sociology, manners are the unenforced standards of conduct which demonstrate that a person is proper, polite, and refined. They are like laws in that they codify or set a standard for human behavior, but they are unlike laws in that there is no formal system for punishing transgressions, other than social disapproval. They are a kind of norm. What is considered "mannerly" is highly susceptible to change with time, geographical location, social stratum, occasion, and other factors. That manners matter is evidenced by the fact that large books have been written on the subject, advice columns frequently deal with questions of mannerly behavior, and that schools have existed for the sole purpose of teaching manners. A lady is a term frequently used for a woman who follows proper manners; the term gentleman is used as a male counterpart; though these terms are also often used for members of a particular social class.
Roles may be achieved or ascribed or they can be accidental in different situations. An achieved role is a position that a person assumes voluntarily which reflects personal skills, abilities, and effort. An ascribed role is a position assigned to individuals or groups without regard for merit but because of certain traits beyond their control, (Stark 2007), and is usually forced upon a person.
Roles can be semi-permanent ("doctor", "mother", "child"), or they can be transitory. A well-known example is the sick role as formulated by Talcott Parsons in the late 1940s. In the transitory "sick role", a person is exempted from his usual roles, but is expected to conform to transitory behavioral standards, such as following doctors' orders and trying to recover.
For many roles, individuals must meet certain conditions, biological or sociological. For instance, a boy cannot take the biological role of mother. Other roles require training or experience. For instance, in many cultures doctors must be educated and certified prior to practicing medicine.
Role development can be influenced by a number of additional factors, including social, genetic predisposition, cultural or situational.
- Societal influence: The structure of society often forms individuals into certain roles based on the social situations they choose to experience. Parents enrolling their children in certain programs at a young age increases the chance that the child will follow that role.
- Genetic predisposition: People take on roles that come naturally to them. Those with athletic ability generally take on roles of athletes. Those with mental genius often take on roles devoted to education and knowledge. This does not mean that people must choose only one path, multiple roles can be taken on by each individual (i.e. Evelyn can be the point guard on the basketball team and the editor of her school newspaper).
- Cultural influence: Different cultures place different values on certain roles based on their lifestyle. For instance, soccer players are regarded higher in European countries than in theUnited States, where soccer is less popular.
- Situational influence: Roles can be created or altered based on the situation a person is put in outside their own influence.
Roles are also frequently interconnected in a role set, that complement of role-relationships in which persons are involved by virtue of occupying a particular social status (Merton 1957). For example, a high school football player carries the roles of student, athlete, classmate, etc.
By: Mohammad Ruzaidy
World
This world is very beautiful. Sometimes, we see humans fight, we ask why but the answer is in us. That's the beauty of the world. Humans have feelings of anger, hate,love and sadness. That style of our souls. Very beautiful. There are men hate going tofight. But sometimes to uphold justice, we are forced to fight. Not all men are able to survive with just be patient, they need to speak out for justice. If we feel angry with the people who have criticized our fault, we tried to think originally, every human being hasthe right to speak out for the good of himself and others. So, tink about it. Had we areeasily upset when criticized, our lives are difficult to change for the better.
Rokok
Why do people smoke? Have to look macho. But what would you do if your friendssmoke? You will leave them or continue to be with them? To me smoking is to describe a weakness of character. If a person is a personal weakness, the easier he isaffected by the symptoms of smoking. I could feel the smoke was the classified assuicide. If we are afraid to commit suicide, why are they smoking?
You should not leave your friends if they smoke. You must guide them to stop smoking.However, what the impact a person stops smoking ?????
You should not leave your friends if they smoke. You must guide them to stop smoking.However, what the impact a person stops smoking ?????
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